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10 Japanese love phrases useful for your romance (3)

Today we are gonna focus on a situation of asking her out.

5 situations,
each one has 2 phases of the polite way and the casual way.

Do you know all of these?

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Do you have any plans for this weekend?

Polite

この週末は 何か予定がありますか?
(Kono syuumatsu wa nanika yotei ga arimasuka?)


Casual

この週末は何か予定あるの?
(Kono syuumatu ha nanka yotei aruno?)




Will you go out with me sometime?

Polite

近うちに、もしよかったら、一緒に出掛けませんか?
(Chikai uchini, moshi yokattara, issyoni dekake masennka?)


Casual

よかったら、近々一緒に出掛けない?
(Yokattara, chikajika issyoni dekake nai?)




Will you go out for coffee or lunch with me sometime?

Polite

今度二人で、お茶かランチでも行きませんか?
(Kondo futari de, ocya ka lunch demo ikimasenn ka?)


Casual

今度二人で、お茶かランチでもしない?
(Kondo futari de, ocya ka lunch demo shinai?)




Can I ask you out for dinner if you have time next week?

Polite

来週のいつか、もし空いてたら、夜ご飯でも行きませんか?
(Raisyuu no itsuka, moshi aite tara, yorugohan demo ikimasennka?)


Casual

来週もし空いてたら、夜ご飯行かない?
(Raisyuu moshi aite tara, yorugohan ikanai?)




Can we make time and have a video chat date sometime?

Polite

近々、時間を合わせてビデオチャットデートしませんか?
(Chikajika, jikan wo awasete video chat date shimasennka?)


Casual

もしよかったらビデオチャットデートしない?
(Moshi yokattara video chat date shinai?)




We Japanese tend to speak politely with someone if the person is not so familiar yet.
I know people sometimes feel our Japanese style as cold or stiff, because in other countries people usually try to speak rather casually in order to be friendly.
But, this is our normal natural communication style.

So, I recommend using polite phrases if you are not her close friend because if you use casual one there is a possibility she assumes you as a "Charai (チャラい)" guy = "Shallow, playboy".
If you guys already know each other well, no worries about it.

If you are gonna ask her out with English, you must check something below.
There is trouble related to English you must know.

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