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6 mistakes of “Online Dating Profile” in Japan

What profile do Japanese girls dislike? We find so many "Boo" profiles on Dating-Apps.

1:No writing, or too short writing

Because women think as below:

  • The guy seems not serious/motivated about dating.
  • The guy seems not sincere.
  • This guy seems "Charai (チャラい)" = shallow playboy.

This means
the guy is trying to pick up a girl without any effort.
He doesn't do even just introduce himself!
How can I want to match with him?

Too short writing with
"Just ask me anything you want to know about me". Girls generally don't like that.
It sounds like he just wanna shortcut about making a profile politely. Arrogant.

Even if his looks is really my type, I dump his card if he has no writing or too short writing.




2:Less clear pic of his face

Think of your reaction to the girl's profile.
You are not interested in the girl who has a less clear pic of her face, right?
You never take action to her. It's the same as girls.

We know the pic quality of the smartphone, so, too bad quality pic looks creepy/suspicious.
No smile?Girls assume this guy won't make her smile.
Too far and too small?How can you know if you like this person or not?
The face is just a face, the important point is personality, but, you know the face tells personality somewhat. You need to know the girl's face, right?

"I'll show you the pic of my face after we matched"???
No way…

If the pic is apparently edited or filtered, that's creepy too.


3:Topless pic on the bed or in front of bathroom miller

If your appeal point is your toned muscular body,
gym pic or vacation pic (beach or something) is acceptable.
Otherwise, girls think the topless pic guy is creepy or
"Yarimoku (ヤリモク)”= hookup guy.

”Sexy" is not an appeal point to Japanese girls in Japan generally.
(Cougar "Gaijin-Hunters" like it, though)
That's very different from other countries.

And Japanese girls tend to do not prefer too much muscular guy,
big muscle tends to make them scared.
So, if you have a nice toned body, appealing it with clothes on is good enough.


4:Too much his requests to girls.

"She must be ..., ..., and ..., also, ..., ... , ..."

Some guys write long enough profiles, that's good,
but, more than half is his requests to girls.
Who are you, King?

I know he's trying to describe what he looks for, but,
it sounds arrogant.

Describing himself is the kindness to girls, I think.
Of course, I also trying to write about me myself but not about my requests.




5:Not positive

If he writes
"I'm just a normal guy",
"I started this app because I've been bored",
"My life is only between work and home, so, I want something else",
or something like that,
how can the girls be attracted to this guy?

Maybe you wrote it just trying to be humble?
Ok, but, don't do that on the Dating-App.
You don't need to be overconfident,
but, you should write something attractive to girls.

Show your positive passionate aspect whatever.
If you are living in Japan and it was your dream since years ago,
you are the one who made your dream come true!
Most Japanese have not brave enough to live in other countries.
So, that's impressive!


6:No enthusiasm to learn Japanese

This shows your laziness and arrogance.
"When you are in Rome, do as Romans do"
If the girl is "Gaijin-Hunter" or just wants to get a free English teacher,
it's welcome to her.
On the other hand, decent Japanese girls want you to respect Japan.
So, if you show you learn Japanese, you certainly get a great bonus point!




I hope this information helpful for your profile making!

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