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4 successful words for “Kokuhaku (告白)”

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Note.
3 tips to make your "Kokuhaku (告白)" success.


First :
You should tell her at least two points that are
"your feelings for her" and
"what relationship you want to build with her from now".


Second :
You should tell her what are the things you like about her
both personality and appearance.


Third :
You should star at her eyes straight during "Kokuhaku (告白)".


Successful signature phrases.


The never fail standards.

1:
{Name}さん、好きです。付き合ってください。
{Name}san, suki desu. tsukiatte kudasai.

({Name}, I really like you. Will you go out with me as an official couple?)

2:
{Name}さん、好きです。僕の彼女になってください。
{Name}san, suki desu. Boku no kanojyo ni natte kudasai.

({Name}, I really like you. Will you be my girlfriend?)

Those two are simple but really straight and strong popular standard "Kokuhaku (告白)" phrases. You should explain to her your feeling for her first, and then you say these signature phrases.


And a little curveball.

3:
{Name}さん、もう友達でいたくない。
{Name}san, mou tomodachi de itaku nai.

({Name}san, I don't wanna be your friend any longer.)

She will probably surprise that you don't wanna be her friend any longer. And maybe sounds pathetic. Then you must add the next phrase right after that.

ちゃんと彼氏・彼女の関係になりたい。
Chanto kareshi ・kanojyo no kankei ni naritai.

(I wanna be BF/GF officially.)



If you've already been confident that
you wanna be with her for long term or marriage is in your view…

4:
{Name}さん、大切にします。ずっと一緒にいてください。
{Name}san, taisetu ni shimasu. Zutto issyo ni ite kudasai.

({Name}, I promise I will always treat you well. Be together with me forever.)

And additional but important thing is
"Don't imagine the only one-time Kokuhaku is all."

Unless she really dislikes you or so,
(it's impossible because if she dislikes you she hasn't dated with you until then)
there is a possibility that your Kokuhaku makes her liking you more than before.
So, even if she didn't say "Yes" to your first Kokuhaku, don't upset or give up.

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