Read the air, guys! Interview with Japanese women about "Big Turn-Off" about foreign guys.
Texting to him always from me.
"Texting you", means not just "there is something to tell".
"wanna communicate", "it's lack of communication!".
Also, "making date plan always from me" is also a big turn-off.
Something related to other girls.
Staring at other girls' body or face, flirting with other girls, talking about other girls too much…even if it's movie stars or models. This is the same as men, right?
No text for more than two days.
Even if he's super busy all day long, he can send just one greeting "good morning!" or "good night!".
If he doesn't do that for more than two days, I feel I'm not important for his life, in fact, it means he didn't think of me when he woke or go to sleep, right?
Acting like my boyfriend despite actually we are not BF/GF yet.
Simply I feel "What? what are you doing? I'm not your girlfriend yet! Creepy… ".
Not polite, immoral, low-respect to society's rule or manner.
Don't leave your garbage there, don't spits to the ground.
Do some guys believe "bad boy" is cool maybe?
Or "being Charai (チャラい = shallow)" is cool?
No way, just big-turn-off.
He doesn't do "Kokuhaku (告白)".
Even though we had several great dates and our mood has been very good, he doesn't do "Kokuhaku (告白)" yet.
I've been waiting for that for a long while, but, it turns me off at the end.
The situation women say "What do you think about me?"
It's a disgusting situation. I don't wanna ask such a miserable question. But, I have to say so, it means he doesn't say clear about our relationship or his feeling for me. Don't ask me back "Why you ask such a question?". Read the air!
Found his lie.
He told me "busy at work", but, the fact was hanging out with his male friends. He said, "It's no problem because it's not the thing flirting with another girl or something". But, lying is too bad. I became to be not able to trust his word, you know what I mean, right?
Not kind to other people.
He's been really kind and sweet to me, but…
To a taxi driver, a waitress, an elderly stranger, a little kid, or whoever, I wanted him to be kind and sweet.
When I was aware of his bad attitude to others it turned me off, and I broke up with him.
Even though he asks me out, he always expects to split the date costs, always!
And when he joined my friends' dinner he was reluctant to split the bill equally, he said they drank more than him.
When I found he upset with a small matter or he gets easily angry with something and made "tut-tut" sound,
I feel I don't wanna be with him.
He's such a small person.
Also, I have to be scared of his future violence.
Look down or label women
"That is the girl!", "Yeah, I know girls… blah blah blah",
something like that.
If you don't respect women, you don't deserve to be loved by women.
Too much body touch in the public, or too early.
Before becoming BF/GF, he should not easily touch basically. If I feel ok with a body touching I touch him from me a little as my ok sign. Read the personal distance which I make from me.
And even though we are already BF/GF too much body contact in public is annoying.
Smelly, unhygienic, or something.
And too hairy.
He never admits his fault.
Compare to Japanese guys, foreign guys are bad at that.
Maybe it's an educational or cultural difference, but, we Japanese think such an attitude "someone cannot admit the fault" or "someone cannot apologize" is shameful.